2007-09-20 07:29
Hand Evaluation - History Lesson
PITBULLS:
“People
who do not learn from history are doomed to
repeat it” . This quote applies to Bridge
players also. Edgar Kaplan said “you must
learn from the Bridge mistakes of others as you do have time to make them all
yourself”. This sentiment has been the purpose of these articles from day one. We all can
learn from our own mistakes & the mistakes of others as long as we park our ego at the door.
Nobody in our group is so good at this game that they do not make errors. We will not promote a “fools paradise” where we all will pretend that you do not make hand evaluation , judgment & systemic errors in Bridge. Why ? because we all can benefit
from discussing them & learn.
To
“err is human” & to repeat
these errors time after time is irritating to say the least. If you do not learn from history, you are doomed to repeat it. Unfortunately
, partner sees the
same errors being committed over & over again. We write them up in these articles so that we can learn , improve & not
repeat the errors. If you feel
that you have not made any errors , debate the issue
& we all can learn from points bought up in the discussion.
I am very careful in choosing which hands I write about. If hands from
our play, they
must have Bridge merit. In other words, be based on Bridge logic , hand
evaluation , judgment or system. If they are silly tired errors or lapses in
concentration, they
do not get written up. I justify writing them up based on my own 40 years of
experience playing this game at a reasonably high level. This does not make me
right !! Debates just to protect your own ego or the ego of a spouse
is silly. Debate the Bridge merit
& not that it was just you & of course you
are right & I just lack the
skill to realize it. We do not give a $%%#@ who among us made the bid , but what is the Bridge logic or issue. Witch hunting is permanently out of season
here. I happen to like
everybody on the distribution list , so saying that I
am not being constructive is
absurd. We play on teams with each other or
as partners so it is my best
interests that everybody improves. This is my selfish motive.
These
articles eventually get published on my web site & read world
wide. I only use names if the person did something good or I will lie to
make sure they did something good . Generic terms like
Pitbulls ,
Tormentees , partner etc of course are used whether
the person is viewed in a favourable or unfavourable light. Over time ,
memories fade & nobody can remember
who made the bids anyway. I use my own errors, if
they are worth discussing & I do not feel the worse for it. I am amazed at
my own errors sometimes but I get over it. I do not care if everybody on the
distribution list sees my Bridge error. On the contrary ,
I hope they can learn from it. I hope I can
learn from it.
Who made the bids are not important !!! As far
as I am concerned they are XYZ . If somebody does some
sort of deep analysis to try & figure the person for blame or put down purposes , it is
they who
have a problem. I am not in the destructive criticism
business , never have been nor will I ever be. If you
have difficulty with this approach as you feel that you do not make Bridge errors ,
then leave the scene. Advise me & I will take you off the
distribution list for these articles. I am a great believer in preserving partners & team mates Bridge
ego, during play but that ends
when the tournament ends. Otherwise , I am doomed to
watch history repeat itself time & time again. My enjoyment gets eroded so
I would quit the team or the partnership at high
levels. Club games , sectionals or regionals , I do not care even if errors are repeated. These are social
Bridge games.
Insecure
Bridge egos are the biggest detriment to learning possible & after 60 years on
this earth , I have no idea how to handle them. You
can kill people with Bridge kindness
by never mentioning their Bridge deficiencies. It is a catch 22
, “preserving their dignity “ vrs helping them
& all of us improve. One or
the other has got to go & my choice
is your opinion about your Bridge infallibility. These articles are not
intended as public relations or advertising for your Bridge prowess. If your
ego can not handle it, shoot the
messenger , I can take it . The other alternative is to play “fun” Bridge . Competitive tournament Bridge should not
be your pastime & you are wasting your time & especially our
time. This is the very last
article on this subject as I am tiring of it & I am too old to change.